Vanderkam Books

I am a self-proclaimed “Woman of Extremes”. I am either working hard or playing hard! Whether it’s helping clients make their dreams a reality in my financial planning business, writing blogs and giving talks, or spending time with my horse Stella, it’s rare that I feel at a loss for things to do!

So as I was heading back to work after three glorious weeks of vacation spent with horses, dogs, family and friends, this book, Off the Clock, by Laura Vanderkam caught my attention and has motivated me to revise how I think about and approach both my work and my life outside of it.

I learned how my approach to life and work is a mindset, with the potential to be a source of stress and ongoing frustration. I often wonder why I don’t allow myself the pleasure of enjoying life, no matter what I’m doing; why do I feel that work and play are diametrically opposed activities? Now, to be fair I do bring lots of enjoyment into my work, I love what I do both at work and at home, yet for me, the time for work is the time to work and the same for play. Add to that I basically see all days during the week as work days and the weekend days are strictly for play. While I call this “disciplined laser focus”, Ms. Vanderkam would almost certainly call it something else!

I hoped by reading this book to find new and creative ways to both savour my life and my work, all in the same day, lingering in the moment and therefore enjoying what is, not what could be. I also want to find ways to become less rigid at work, based on how I approach and experience my days.

I’ve gotten so many great ideas and tools that are quickly shifting my perspective/mind set and therefore my behaviour so much so that I wanted to share Vanderkam’s Seven Secrets of People With All the Time in the World. Along with that I want to reflect on how many, if not most of these secrets pertain to financial life planning.  

1. Tend your Garden

Mindfulness is not new, becoming mindful of your time, how you spend it and who you spend it with can be very revealing. “The daily discipline of minding one’s hours, changes the experience of time.. It can lead to a savoured life”.

In my office we all started tracking our time and more. We had fun starting a stop watch to determine how much time we spent completing certain activities, we turned it into a game with the ultimate goal of being more efficient and productive with our time at work.

There’s good reason for becoming more productive and efficient with our time.

First of all, Financial Literacy is extremely important to us and we have two innovative and fun financial literacy courses we’re going to launch in the upcoming months.

In addition, developing our visual philanthropy toolkit, the model to accompany our focus on meeting the philanthropic needs of our clients and prospective clients is a high priority. We intend to achieve all this in addition to fulfilling our current client’s needs which means regular meetings and more effective communication are going to be increasingly vital as we move forward.

We know as well, working in financial services, that once people start to become more mindful of their spending by tracking it, the amount that gets spent goes down (an effective immediate achievement) and the additional benefit is we start gaining valuable insights into why we spend what we do. Just like how we spend our time, how we spend our money helps us gain a better understanding of what we’re actually doing in a tangible and practical sense, and from there we can decide if that’s what we want in our lives.

Vanderkam encourages you to create daily intentions. Ie - what three accomplishments would make you feel like you got a lot done today? What do I like about my schedule? What would I like to spend more time doing? What would I like to spend less time doing? How can I make that happen? These are questions that take little time to ask and answer at the beginning of your day, but can have a tremendous impact on what you accomplish and how you feel afterward.  

2. Making Life Memorable: how to make today different and therefore memorable from other days

Becoming more mindful of how we spend our time helps to make our days memorable and there are ways to prepare our brains and our lives to make that happen. I found it fascinating to read that the people who do something memorable within their day are way more likely than the average to agree that they generally have enough time (her time perception survey reveals all sorts of gems that I am sure you’ll find interesting) for the things they wanted to do.

The major question to ask yourself each and every day is this: “Why will today be different from other days? Why will tomorrow be different from other days?” These questions open the door for your brain to explore the answers that will in fact make life memorable, and overall more enjoyable. Vanderkam has a lot of ideas on how we can evoke and linger on our memories that were fulfilling and help to create more of what she calls “indelible days”.

Vanderkam has lots of suggestions in her book on how this can be achieved, without spending a lot of money to make it happen!  

3. Don’t Fill Time

Celebrate your time dividends” As you invest more of your time focussing on the things that truly matter as opposed to time wasted on social media for example, you’d be surprised at the freedom you’ll feel by opening up more choices and becoming aware of how to make life more memorable.  

4. Linger

I feel as though Vanderkam gave me permission to savour each moment. Given she links this to greater happiness, I thought, why not?! Her suggestion to “try creating mini daily building into your life today consciously savoring something” was precisely the prompt I needed. I now remind myself each day to do just that and have been pleasantly surprised at how easy it is and how I am reaping the dividends from this investment in how I approach each day and my time.  

5. Invest in your Happiness

What makes you happy, where are your pain points, how can you plan the activities that make you happiest into your day, by starting your day with those and how can you move minutes out of the category that brings you pain.

This for me was the equivalent of doing the things I love and delegating the things I don’t love. Thankfully this has become easier because I have a remarkable team of people working alongside me. So by learning how to delegate more often - and more effectively - I’m freeing up my time to do more of the things I love, both at work and at home.  

6. Let It Go

There were two aspects of this Chapter that I particularly loved.

One was the concept of Maximizers vs Satisficers. I see myself very clearly as a Maximizer – or someone always wanting the absolute best options. What’s wrong with that? My question exactly.

Maximizers tend to be perfectionists, and according to Vanderkam there is no such thing as getting it perfect every time so we set ourselves up for disappointment which sucks our energy away from our personal lives and our work. Not only that but Satisficers tend to be happier because “they don’t waste time ruminating over choices and expectations. People who want the best tend to be prone to regret when their choices turn out not to be perfect in some way”. Enough said. I am told that I can change and become more of a Satisficer, so that is something I’m working on.

The second concept was BTN goals, Better Than Nothing Goals. I saw the logic in this idea, and given I am an “overachiever” setting the bar much lower means I am confident that I can achieve my goals while striving to exceed them.  

7. People are a good use of Time

As an introvert when I am done work I tend to head home, revel in the fact that we live in paradise, on a beautiful lake, in the country and feel blessed. I am less inclined to spend time with friends and especially not during my work day or after a work day. I am happy to say I’ve changed that and am much happier as a result.

Off the Clock: Feel Less Busy While Getting More Done

Read this book! I promise you’ll be glad you did so.

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